Alzheimer's disease is the most common cause of dementia; a progressive disorder that affects how the brain works, in particular, the ability to remember, think and reason. 

Living with dementia can have a big emotional, social, psychological and practical impact on a person. Many people with dementia describe these impacts as a series of losses and adjusting to them is challenging. There are many factors from symptoms of dementia that play a huge role in shaping someone's experience with this illness. These include the relationships the person has, their environment and the support they receive.

At Nurseplus we believe it is really important to understand the impact the condition has on a person. Including understanding how the person might think and feel, as these things will affect how they behave. The person may be experiencing a world that is very different to what they are used to.

Nurseplus carers are aware that each person is unique, with their own life history, personalities, likes and dislikes. In order to support someone with dementia well, it is very important to focus on what the person still does have, not on what they may have lost. It is also important to focus on what the person feels rather than what they remember.

You can find out more information on how to support someone with Alzheimer's here

James is a Healthcare Assistant with our Chichester branch. He shared his story to raise awareness about the daily struggles people go through with Alzheimer’s.

 

I have been helping Mr & Mrs Chichester for over 3 years now. I visit for up to 2 hours per week to help with shopping, tidying and getting out of the house etc. 

One day, Mr Chichester was sitting on the bench at the front of the house crying. I sat next to him and asked what was wrong. He replied “James, I have a lovely wife, we’ve been married for 63 years. I sold my company and have been able to afford a lovely home. I have family who visits every 2 days”

I was confused about why this made him cry…

I said “But, those are all good things. Why are you sad?”

“James, I am the luckiest man in the world, but I am missing it all… As you know I have Alzheimer's and I miss out on so much. I have forgotten where my room is and my family miss me.”

I escorted Mr Chichester back inside, made a cup of tea, sat him next to his wife and said “you may forget from time to time, but your family and friends will never forget you! You, sir, are a legend of a man.” 

Mr Chichester gave me the biggest and longest hug ever and whispered in my ear, “Thank you.”

 

This is why I love my job, putting smiles on sad faces, being a listening ear and helping those at their lowest time.